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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I loaned some money to my boyfriend to cover some unexpected expenses. The total is close to $5,000, but I am willing to accept $3,000 (the other $2,000 was in frequent flier miles/hotel points, so no real cash value, although I could have used those points for my own use).

It’s been about six months, and I don’t want the loan to drag out much longer.

I casually asked about it about three months ago, and he blew up me, [b]including giving me an itemized list of how much he paid to take me out, [/b]or money he spent on groceries that I ate. Since then, I have picked up every check (that $$ obviously isn’t included in the loan amount).

I am scared to ask again, and I think this relationship is probably ending. But I would like to make an attempt to get my money back.

Any advice on how to start/have this conversation?[/quote]

Is he my xH?? When we divorced, he created an itemized list of everything he had paid for during our marriage and tried to get me to pay it all back.[/quote]

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