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[quote=Anonymous]Total unanimity on DCUM! i'm with them all - this guy is a loser, and it's an expensive lesson. That doesn't mean you can't go after the money though. You can ask for it back. Then when he refuses you break up with him. And then you tell him you'll pursue it in small claims courty. I might even text him about the money so there's a paper trail - it will help you in court. This is a little devious, but I'm old and jaded. "Hey John, can we talk about when you can repay me for the loans? I don't really care about the mileage stuff but if you could repay the 3k in cash that I gave you I'd like to get this done. Thanks." You just need him to acknowledge the loan in writing. Doesn't matter if he gets angry or says he paid for dinners or whatever. You can reply with "you were very clear that this was a loan, not our dates" . Then you have a trail you can show a judge. I'm sorry OP. And also, stand up for yourself!!! [/quote]
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