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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I appreciate everyone’s feedback. To give more details…..the teasing is almost every time I see him. Most recently last night, he called and I said hi when answering. He said who just answered the phone. I said, me of course what are you talking about. Then he said wow, your voice sounded so deep. It’s just these constant little comments that I don’t like. There is always a complaint. Another example
Is we went out to eat and he said, let me hurry up and dive into my food before you try to eat some. I’ve never in my life tried to eat his food. Outside of this, I really like him. He shows interest through lots of quality time (my first love language). We have several hobbies in common so outside of the teasing it’s easy to spend time together. Also the sex is great.[/quote]

OP, I am one of the posters who asked for examples. To me this is not teasing, it's like he has [u]no filter at all[/u] and no self-awareness. Does he do this with his friends? Even if he is willing to change, it will take time and effort for him to change his social skills. Does he want to do it? Do you want to put up with it?[/quote]

I dated someone who said stuff like OP’s BF. It was so annoying and kind of boring because it wasn’t a conversation, it was just one sided weird jokes that I didn’t have a response to. I didn’t feel like I was being teased, I just felt like his jokes were really lame. Good qualities were that he was very intelligent, kind, caring, and handsome, but his “jokes” were just lame and annoying. I really think it was a lack of social skills and i decided we just weren’t compatible. [/quote]

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