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[quote=Anonymous]OP ignore the troll posts. They’re written by the same person, they are trying to create drama.

You already know that your husband is out of line. It’s one thing for a partner to say I love you in x outfit, or honey I think you are over/underdressed for xyz why not wear a or b.

This guy is just trying to hurt your feelings or make you insecure. Who cares if your spouse wears a shirt you don’t like. Everyone I’ve seriously dated has had an odd shirt or jacket that I didn’t care for. I don’t get embarrassed my the outfit of a person I love.

And the comment about stuffing your face?  Whatever your weight is this is not meant in anyway to be a good faith comment on your health or habits.  Both of the incidents you mention are pointedly aimed at making you feel bad about your appearance…. He’ll get worse and this isn’t about your looks.

I had an ex go from telling me how beautiful I was and how much he loved my body to telling me I should wear more makeup, skip dinner and that I wasn’t getting younger.  All of this within a summer.

No I didn’t gain weight or look different. I had taken a trip he didn’t want me to go on (with family) and turned down sex the night I returned because I had cramps.

Rinse repeat over a year long relationship with him being a bigger jerk every time. 
It was about me saying no and having my own life.

Don’t know what your husbands deal is but a few guesses- he’s cheating or looking to and is creating “reasons” it’s your fault and he is justified. He’s unhappy with his job, himself, being a husband or dad, or he thinks you’re not being a good wife 🙄 and he’s punishing you.

Get your finances together, don’t rock the boat and consider your options [/quote]

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