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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand this notion that we we shouldn’t judge.[/quote] Because even if you think you know another family’s personal circumstances, you actually do not. You are just making a judgment based on whatever limited perception you happen to have and it’s likely to be wrong. [/quote] This x 1000000. Most judgment stems from ignorance. I mean, if you are married to someone or live in their home or spend all day every day with them and their family, and you want to judge their parenting. knock yourself out. But most judgment is made with extremely passing knowledge. And what I see most often is "well my kid isn't like that" or "we'd never do that" as though the way you are parenting is definitively perfect. Even if you are getting everything right (you aren't), that's only true for your kids and your family. It wouldn't translate perfectly to someone else's life. That's why you shouldn't judge.[/quote]
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