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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As the parent who would be offering to pay—just let them pay.  We have friends who we subsidize for things that would be too expensive for them to do because spending time with nice people we like is much more important than the money.[/quote]

Would you be offended or embarrassed if you suggested something, thinking you would pay, and then they did?[/quote]

NP. Offended, no. Embarrassed, maybe a bit. Mostly worried that since the proposal was my idea, I had inadvertently made them feel pressured into paying for their child to join in when they hadn't planned on spending money that way.

OP, you've offered to pay twice and she's turned you down. I think continuing to push it risks becoming tacky and off-putting. It's uncomfortable to feel beholden to someone but one of you is going to end up feeling uncomfortable here no matter what. I would try to reciprocate in another way, by inviting their child on different outings or whatever. [/quote]

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