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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My girlfriend and I have been living together for almost 3 months. It’s going well except she is more messy than I am. Unlike most men, I’m very neat and like to keep things clean. I hate clutter. I rinse + put dishes in dishwasher right away - gf will put in sink or just leave on kitchen counter until end of day, I will do laundry & fold + put away right away - gf throws her stuff everywhere and never seems to fold or put away. I put things back - gf leaves the bathroom counter a mess with all of her products. I clean the fridge every week before grocery shopping - gf never does it until after or checks that we’re out of something until after. I do a reset every night - dishes put away + run dishwasher, fold blanket, wipe down counters - gf had left it messy many times one the nights she stay up later than I do. I know this is very insignificant and doesn’t really matter, but is it annoying habit she has. I just need to vent my frustrations to someone who hopefully gets it. [/quote]

I don't see anything wrong with keeping dishes in the sink until the end of the day, and then loading them in the dishwasher. As long as it's not overnight, it won't cause pest issue. Folding blankets is also over the top, people just cover the beds with blankets and coverlets. What is even "folding" the blankets? [/quote]

OP here. Maybe I’m confusing people. I don’t mean blankets on the bed, though that’d one thing my gf insists we do. She always makes the bed every morning.

The blankets I’m talking about are the ones we use while we watch tv. Every night before bed I will pick up any dishes ( she leaves her glasses or drinks everywhere), fold the blanket and put it away, and run the dishwasher. We cook every night and I always make sure to wash up any dishes and wipe down the counters. We have a cleaning lady that comes twice a month to handle all the deep cleaning. I like to keep things neat because our place is small and just a couple of things out make it look messy. [/quote]

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