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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if this is a serious question, this is the wrong place to ask. I don't think the DCUM platform has many posters that will support this. I think you should look elsewhere for advice. [/quote]

Yes, but where else can OP find people who are both in an open marriage AND in a "high wealth community"??? These are her people.[/quote]

This was a snarky reply above but it catches something in the OP that I admit I didn't fully grasp at first. OP is fine with divorce yet is concerned with things like "taking a financial hit" and with property in their "high wealth community." OP, if you are concerned about keeping a lifestyle -- you have to be open about this with your DH. If you regard the marriage as only a parenting and financial deal, have you told hm so? Does he know there's no way that working on the marriage relationship is going to turn it back into a full marriage with sex? The focus on material and financial comfort in the OP is easily missed in the discussion of open marriage pros and cons here. OP,  you may need to accept that an open marriage is not going to salvage the lifestyle and finances you want, since he may fall in love with someone else and divorce you anyway.[/quote]

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