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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, sorry to be blunt but this sounds like a very toxic relationship. Have you been to therapy before about your relationship with her. Her reaction is NOT normal.[/quote]

I have been t therapy, but we didn't really talk about my mom.[/quote]

That’s…surprising.  I wonder how this never came up?[/quote]

Because I thought that talking to my mom everyday meant we had a good relationship. So when the therapist asked about my parents, I told her we have a good relationship.[/quote]

I was the same as you. I felt shocked when I realized the abuse I had withstood. Now I see I am a strong mofo to have put up with all this crazy. She just screamed at me to today and baited me left and right.

Thanks to therapy, EFT, and reading, I didn’t take the bait. I could see in her eyes that she was like, “it’s not working…” Then, once I was alone in the nursing home with her, she began crying and then she yelled at me. I kept calm and kept not taking bait.

I was arranging some things in her room and kept asking where she would like this or that, and it was disarming her attack. I knew she would attack me as soon as we were alone so I felt ready for it.

Omg, she tried to get at me so many ways.

This is the first time in a very long time I have not felt horrible. However, I am having trouble eating. I gagged and almost threw up from stress. [/quote]

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