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[quote=Anonymous]Your DH needs to step in here to tell your SIL's that for your family, the chart will assign his name only. He can loop you in when you are available. This doesn't mean you're unwiling to help, but that in your household it's his name as a rep for the whole family, and then your family decides who is involved. If they claim this is about preparing the grandmother to not confuse her about who is coming, then he needs to ask how far in advance they need a name or names and you should just follow that. I'd probably go every once in a while or accompany DH, but I also wouldn't want to be on the chart as another person. It sucks that they didn't show sympathy for you and your parents. But it's not really applicable to this. I do totally get that it makes it sting. In any case, they won't get that, so no sense in bringing it up. [/quote]
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