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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. So we host bimonthly cousin sleepovers. We hosted last weekend (when BIL broke the news), they are hosting this weekend. I keep telling her I'm happy to take the kids and/or cancel but she wants to host (says it will be a good distraction). BIL and DS are still living together. I'm not sure I can stomach seeing him right now at pick-up/drop off. Do I ask for him to not be there or suck it up and try to be civil.[/quote] Your reaction is understandable, but again, don't make this about you. Focus on your kids, your sister and her kids and just be civil to your BIL even in the light of this new information. And brace yourself for the very real possibility that your sister and her husband will work through this very challenging time. Again, it's not about you.[/quote]
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