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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- so for all of you - I’m literally sitting in room with my MIL in sweats spending tonite. And my 16 year old son is right next to me- although he’s going home. So no idea what you have heard, but I’m sitting here in a hospital with pillow behind my back spending night.  The only thing they asked is if I minded lights will be on most of Eve ring and they do 2 hour checks on MIl. Room is large and my “bed” is wooden leather recliner that lies flat when you push.
  They have an extra pillow and blankets.
   They didn’t even ask or mention rules- just asked me if I needed anything.
   So not sure what to tel you all.
  As for relationship- the brother and mother have great relationship and he’s been great son.  And they are visiting his son who is great kid- engaged and we spend a good bit of time with that son- so all the “you don’t knows” are BS. I know all of thats
   But I do agree each person has to decide for themselves if they want to be with aging parents in hospital at medical emergency or not. So I’ll let him (them with his wife) make their own decisions. I do agree if we need help to state it clearly- but I’ll leave that up to my husband- and finally I do think a family member should cut the thousand excuses and come for first emergency like this. 
   However I can now see that at least among lay these posters, most wouldn’t take the time.
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So all you wanted was for people to coddle you and tell you how right and how affronted you are. Well, you should have said that upfront and saved people a bunch of time.  :roll: [/quote]

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