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[quote=NotSoAnonymous]Q: Is one person in your relationship more masculine/feminine? Do you find strangers willing to bend over backwards to try to include you and defend you on your behalf because you are gay in the way some people try way too hard to be PC? And if yes, is that strange and does that make you feel like excluded despite the good intentions? A: I am probably more masculine than my partner in the traditional sense, though I would ask that everyone challenge their ideas of what is masculine or feminine. I would not be considered "butch" by my own community, nor do I self identify in that way. Think sportyish ll bean type. I think the way glbt people win equality is only through our allies. We need people of conscious speaking up, but not speaking *for* us if that makes sense. In the same way that I will speak out against a racist comment, but do not have the intimate understanding of living my life as a racial minority. [/quote]
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