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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Neither.  Keep looking. Don’t settle. [/quote]

If she wants someone who can bring her peace and she admittedly likes him, how is she settling?[/quote]

She already says guy #1 is boring and isn't interested in being his kids stepmom. Yikes. That doesn't sound like someone in love.[/quote]

I didn’t say he was boring. I said I can see myself getting bored with him sometimes but it could remedy that by nudging him to do some exciting things. Also, I never said I didn’t want to be her stepmom. I said I would never date a man with a child but I clearly liked him enough when we met to let that rule go. I did however say I was scare of being a stepmom because I’m not a parent myself and I’m afraid I’ll screw up. [/quote]

I find it interesting that you are tending to defend how you described each relationship. Sorry but, you used the fact that you never wanted to be a step-mom as a negative to describe the relationship. [/quote]

As someone who loves my husband and stepson, being a stepmom was a negative when we were dating. As others have said, it’s really REALLY hard. So yea, I can see why OP listed as a negative. [/quote]

Oh, 100% agree with you. OP is disputing her own words when presented to her. That's all I am saying. [/quote]

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