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[quote=Anonymous]If the FIL and stepmom have been married for a significant amount of time, you should assume the assets are owned jointly. You also said FIL doesn’t have a lot of assets so stepmom will likely need them for her potential care if she gets sick. It is inappropriate to ask for the will or a list of FIL’s assets. Her husband is very ill and she needs to focus on that. The only possible appropriate question is to ask if FIL prepaid funeral arrangements as those can be very pricey. My dad and stepmom were married for a long time. She was the one who always talked about money to me in the last year or so and I found it inappropriate. Every time I spoke with her she would mention that the funeral was prepaid (and how much it cost). My dad did make sure that my siblings and I got things like his coin collection, watches etc. I have no idea if we got everything or if she kept some for her children and grandchildren. But my kids were happy and that’s all that mattered to me.[/quote]
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