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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t differentiate between your parents and your in laws. This baby is grandchild to both. Your husbands parents are going to be important to the baby, just as your parents will be. It’s not only your baby - it is also your husbands. If you have a preemie, which is scary, the hospital will have rules for visitors and you’ll have to follow them as will everyone else. Once you get home, try to be even handed about who gets to see the baby. If they’ll need to stay, you don’t have to let them bunk at your house, they can get a hotel or Airbnb or something. [/quote] ??? Of course the parents of the person giving birth and having a major medical event should be differentiated from ILs. Post-birth is about the support for the mother. Baby doesn't care if ILs are there or not. To pretend the patient's parents & their ILs are the same is idiotic. The real answer is 'whenever the mother feels up for it/mother's preference + it is safe for the health (including mental health) of the mother and baby per MDO's orders/recommendations". [/quote]
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