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[quote=Anonymous]STOP FEELING GUILTY FOR HIM LYING TO YOU.

You did not set up up or entrap him. He chose to lie to you about drinking, which is a huge, huge red flag.

I am really sorry you're going through this. I'm glad you are taking seriously, and honestly, given that it's having health impacts, this is a bigger problem than you probably even realize. I know someone who DIED when his organs started shutting down after alcoholism -- this was a 50 year old man who seemed to be in good health. It's nothing to sweep under the rug.

I suspect your husband really can't be a social drinker either. Someone who is lying about drinking a beer and pouring hard alcohol into Gatorade CANNOT QUIT and is an alcoholic. I'd insist on rehab and a sober existence from here on out.

Another alcoholic I know (divorced, estranged from parents) has gone further and further downhill because she has had no one looking out for her on a daily basis and insisting she clean up. Your DH is lucky you are there and you really should not be ok with him "drinking less" because what he will do is hide alcohol and make you think he is drinking less, when he really won't be. [/quote]

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