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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Isn’t there a story about this in the Bible? One woman is rushing around doing chores, while the other just stops and listens to Jesus? [/quote] It’s the story of Martha and Mary. I love this story. As a child (a girl and a perfectionist with a somewhat narcissistic mother), I saw Mary as kind of a freeloader and resented that she had chosen the “better part.” As an adult, I see this new as a story that emulates some of the teachings of Buddha and “walking the middle path.” You have to have elements of both in your life. You cannot live a purely spiritual life where you are constantly stopping to connect, be mindful, and appreciate the moment. At some point, you have to get things done. I think this is why all major religions advocate for (at least) one day a week that is dedicated to rest, mindfulness, and connection with our family and our own inner lives. We have gotten away from that as our culture has moved away for religion, but maybe we should look at bringing it back. [/quote]
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