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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve gained 30-35 pounds since we’ve been married.  I didn’t think it was a big deal to my husband.  He still loves me, and he still wants to have sex all of the time.  But he just told me the other day that it really bothers him that I don’t make more of an effort to lose the weight, and it makes him feel kind of down about [b]himself[/b].  I don’t understand, but he seemed sincere, and I have started making an effort to lose it.  [/quote]

I’ve gain 30 lbs (5’5” 160 now) as well and we have sex all the time. DH does sometimes comment on fitness levels of other women. I know he finds fit women attractive. I’m not going to tie myself in knots trying to be thin. I exercise daily and eat moderately healthy. I’d have to drastically reduce what I eat to be 30 lbs smaller. Accepting our parent’s changing bodies as we age is part of life. [/quote]

Body change is an inevitable part of aging. Continuing to stuff your face is not.  That exercise is doing zero for your weight. Surely you could cut out a snack and an extra helping daily and drop 10 pounds pretty easily.[/quote]

Yeah, nothing easy about losing weight. If I was stuffing my face, I’d be over 200 lbs. [/quote]

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