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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with PP that you should not swallow your disappointment about the disrespect he showed you and say “I understand.” Nope, he doesn’t get understanding. At the same time, you are still getting to know each other and it IS awkward to have a “talk” so early on.

If you want to give him another chance (one more max!!) I think it’s okay to give it a beat, as you have, and say “Hope it worked out.” And leave it at that. The ball is in his court. Proceed with caution.

I think there is a distinct possibility you won’t hear from him again. He doesn’t want to be a *total* a-hole so he texted you at the last minute and acted oblivious that you might be owed an apology - so of course you would feel nuts if you confronted him now. It’s also possible that he’ll be back when his Plan A falls through. I don’t know - he didn’t call you SNF didn’t try to reschedule.

If it were me, it would be game over. I wouldn’t even text back. Maybe if he made a real effort to reconnect…but I don’t know

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+1. It takes 5 seconds to send an “Hey, I am so sorry - big work emergency! Call you later” text.

I wouldn’t provide the short response mentioned earlier (“hope it worked out”) and unfortunately I would not expect one back. He did ghost. He is not a quality man. I would not reach out again.

You didn’t do anything wrong. You’re in your 40s, you’ve gotten to know one another, intimacy is not unexpected. There’s clearly something not right and you don’t have to put up with it! Thank you, next! [/quote]

Sorry, that should say “I would provide a short response”[/quote]

OP: Agree. Should I provide the short response today? Or wait until tomorrow (i.e., after Valentine's Day)?[/quote]

Do you want to get his attention? Then do Not respond. [/quote]

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