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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you tell her parents? Did you reach out to your niece? It seems she needs a reasonable, emotionally mature adult she can rely on? She needs to be in therapy to help navigate this family transition.[/quote] She is getting a ton of therapy. This was about her therapy. [/quote] So they should have her take it down and let the therapist know what happened. Therapy is a great place to learn boundaries.[/quote] Perhaps but it would seem pretty self-serving by the parents.[/quote] Are you 12? People, Most especially KIDS, should not be airing their private business in the Internet. And what the kids knows may not be totally accurate. Grow up. Plus a kid needs therapy to deal with this mess, not crowd source advice from randos.[/quote] What you’re saying isn’t necessarily wrong, but there’s no way the parents can make the kid take it down and convince them it’s for the kid’s own good and not just for the parents to save face. And it would be at least partly that the parents are embarrassed that their secrets are becoming public. Parents selfish enough to put their kids in that situation, to know enough to say what she said, don’t suddenly stop thinking of themselves first. I’m pretty sure the lessons this child needs to learn can’t be taught by the parents at this point. They’re the example of what not to do, not the moral authority. [/quote]
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