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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. I think he’s completely gas lighting me. Everything is somehow my fault, and he appears to take no responsibility or part of it. Examples:

-he was supposed to make a particular financial transaction in 2021. I did my part, he never did his. I didn’t realize till after jan 1 that he never followed thru. When I asked him/called him out on it, he got defensive. He turned it on me, and said “the fact you didn’t bring this up till now shows your inability to communicate. You didn’t bring this up till now, how are we supposed to plan for the future?” UMM he was the one who didn’t do his part. He messed up. But it’s my fault for not communicating?
-we were looking into home purchase last year. Fell in love with a house but it really was over budget. I am legitimately laughing at what he wrote to me in his list of complaints grievances. “I’d appreciate it if you read some finance or investing books.  Can’t say you want to live a certain lifestyle then refuse to put thought or effort into making it possible like it’s solely on me.“   My friends, I have been the breadwinner for the last 5 years since he was FIRED and subsequently un/underemployed. In 2021 I made 40k more than him. 2020 I made 65k more. 2019 i made 80k more.

I have been the only stable reliable source of income for the last 5 years. Health insurance. Retirement.
And he has the nerve to say I refuse to put thought and effort into how to live a certain  “kind of lifestyle.”

What planet is he on? [/quote]

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