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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Remarried and sometimes still sleep with my ex-wife.

If I had my way, I would still be married to her.  She is the love of my life.

Since she wouldn’t take me back, I settled.[/quote]

She sees no contradiction in doing this after divorcing you for cheating?[/quote]

We weren’t married, but I did this with a boyfriend in college. He cheated on me for a long time before I knew anything. He finally broke up with me to concentrate on the other woman, but after a couple of months he started cheating on her with me.

Normally, I wouldn’t go near a guy with a girlfriend, but I made an exception in this case. I figured, she was okay with knowing he was cheating on me, she must not care if he was cheating on her with me.

A friend of mine who knew the other woman recently told me that she thinks that the other woman never knew that he was cheating on her with me, which I actually find kind of annoying. I thought at the time that I would like it if she knew so she would know how I felt. I also thought that she should have expected him to cheat on her because she was aware that he had a girlfriend he was cheating on when he was with her. 
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DP. How do you know she was aware he had a girlfriend?[/quote]

He told me she knew. He was doing summer coursework at her school, so he didn’t know her before that summer. They were part of a group doing a project together and he said he talked about his girlfriend back at his regular school. Another friend of ours was working on the same project and confirmed that she knew he had a girlfriend and that she was the one who pursued him. Obviously, he was the one at fault for cheating, but I still think it’s wrong to pursue someone who is already in a relationship.

Long in the past, of course, but this topic reminded me of that time in my life. 
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