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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m more compatible with my former Ex-wife of 20 years than current wife.

We had the same sense of humor and interests and still will laugh like crazy.  She is also very intelligent and I enjoy conversations.[/quote]

No what you're doing is affecting your current wife's attitude toward you. If my spouse was still doing that stuff with his ex I would grow to hate him. Yes he wouldn't like my personality at that point. What you are doing is self defeating behavior. Instead of putting 100% into your marriage you messed it up. You should have cut your ex out of your life after the divorce. 
Also, you aren't married to her and if you were you'd once again have the same problems.  Grow up Mr.[/quote]

Well- she is the woman I had the affair with so if I had taken that advice I wouldn’t have left my first wife.  Unfortunately I was an idiot and regret it deeply.  People are right when they say that it’s limerence that makes you do stupid things and it cools off quickly once real life sets in.[/quote]

Got it but that ship has sailed. Move on and put everything into your current marriage. You did agree to marry her, so time to cut off the one who is now your ex. Your ex is probably laughing and playing you both knowing what it's done to you, and your current relationship. My BIL cheated on his wife of 25 years, she divorced him. He didn't want to be alone and moved in with the OW. Now it's been many years and he's still miserable. He does the same thing you do, and [b]his gf of course has anger he still talks and sees his wife. Everyone has told him to move on, and yes the ex and the kids play him because they still have anger.[/b] [/quote]

Waaaaaahhhhh, crying here :roll: .  Maybe the gf will realize a cheater doesn’t make a great life partner.[/quote]

Yep I agree. The current gf has rheaped what she sowed along with her bf![/quote]

Misery loves company. [/quote]

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