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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sure my cheating ex husband thinks we are friends, because he has no idea what it means to be a friend to someone.  Friends are trustworthy, honest, can be supportive and can think of the other person’s needs.  ExDH has none of these qualities.

I am friends with my Ex like I’m friends with that creepy guy at the office who keeps hitting on me but I’m too scared to report to HR because he has the power to retaliate and make my work life a mess.  I am polite to my ex. I pretend to be interested in his thoughts.  I am careful not to let him know anything about myself. I try to focus our conversation strictly on work (i.e. the kids), and I try to get him to do his fair share of the work while at the same time being prepared at any moment that he will do something to screw me.

He is not my friend. [/quote]

I feel for you.  I would hate to have to pretend to care about him or his thoughts.  Standing there and listen to him and pretend to care is misery and I would be thinking this is such a waste of my time.[/quote]

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