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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had three terminations from the time I was 22 - 28. They all seemed justifiable at the time but I am horrified by my irresponsibility -- I'm pro choice obviously but I used the procedure irresponsibly and inappropriately. I have huge regrets and shame. Recently I gave birth early. My OB says it is not tied to the procedures but I see that multiple abortions are listed as a risk factor for preterm birth on every website book etc. there is.

I can't live with myself. I have never experienced guilt or pain like this before but I really do not care at all about me -- I feel sick for what I have done to my innocent child. He was in the NICU because of my past recklessness and stupidity. I am going to therapy of course for him. But I don't know how I will be able to cope of there is something wrong with him due to his prematurity -- and there very well could be. [/quote]

Stop blaming yourself immediately!  Many, many things can be risk factors for preterm birth.  I have a friend who has three children and every single one was preterm and, to the best of my knowledge, she never had an abortion.  There will be PPs who will encourage your guilt but don't believe them.  Good luck to you and your son.[/quote]

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