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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a book on body language you may  want to read. It was written by J Demetrius, a well known jury consultant, but it may help you understand the nonverbal body language you are sending and what to do to change the message if you are coming across as too stand offish to your dates. [/quote]

I don't get the idea that OP is being too standoffish. I get the idea that OP has got it into her head she's supposed to be jumping the bones of every guy she goes out with. Seems like she's got a nice rhythm going with her current guy. You aren't going to have chemistry with every date, that's just facts. Better to let things happen naturally than forcing it.

Going a step further op is meeting these guys n dating apps, a downside of these apps is a false sense of chemistry when you're looking at pics,   reading their profile, and texting back and forth, you can think there's more there than there is. When you meet up in person you realize the chemistry just isn't there, but you feel badly about it because you've spent all this time chatting pre-meet up and have your hopes up feel is though you've invested something. When you meet someone in person no apps you can tell early on if that chemistry is there and usually don't waste time going out on a date and thus you don't feel invested and wasting time.

Back to OP,  it seems silly to say but se's got to relax and not build up these dates so much in her head let things flow naturally.[/quote]

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