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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been OLD for the past 6 months or so, and have found the physical part of dating was at times awkward. For example, how am I supposed to show physical affection during a hike or trip to the museum? Haven’t even gotten farther than that. I think it’s because these guys are basically strangers and it honestly just feels weird to touch strangers. Any advice? One thing I’ve heard is to try to break the touch barrier early, because otherwise it will start to feel like the friend zone. If I have to make a first move, what should I do?[/quote]

Are you not hugging hello or goodbye? It’s unusual that one of those doesn’t happen even on a first date. You’re probably giving off a vibe…[/quote]

OP here. Yes, we are hugging hello and goodbye. Thus far, I’ve been on 6 dates with one guy who did make a first move (goodbye kisses, hand holding, sitting  close to each other, etc.). He has covid right now, so obviously not going any farther for now. Prior to this, I had 3 guys get to 4 dates each without touching me at all beyond the goodbye hug. It just feels super awkward. I know I need to relax more…[/quote]

It sounds like  you and the other guys weren't that into each other, and that's okay, just move on. It sounds like things with current guy are progressing nicely, just let things happen  naturally.

Also OP do you have anxiety? I ask because I do and before  I started medication I would overthink stuff like this just something to consider.[/quote]

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