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[quote=Anonymous]I would be angry too, OP. Your DH needs to step up and take responsibility for sorting out this mess. It is a mess, but it can be untangled. PPs have given you good advice. Do not pay the subcontractors. The contractor owes them. He may be criminally liable for forging receipts, so you can go after him that way. If he ends up in jail, he's not going to screw anyone else.

But get good legal advice, and stick with it. Do not do anything stupid like bulldoze the work you've already paid for! Keep your emotions in check. This is a mess, and it will be sorted out eventually. Messes can be cleaned up with time and methodical effort.

Forget about the money. If it's gone, it's' gone. Salvage what you can and move on. Do not throw away your marriage over this. Yes, I completely understand your DH pressured you into this project, but it was his dream, and now it's his mess to clean up. Monitor his progress, but make him clean it up with the lawyer's help.

Good luck to you, OP. Shit happens, and you've just got to deal with it. [/quote]

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