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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are getting some harsh responses but also some good advice. There are oaths you can where you can have a successful and productive career *and* your husband stays in the reserves. It will just take a lot of adult conversations about the full load and responsibilities of parenting and how to navigate in potentially a slightly non-traditional way. My DH used to travel extensively for his job while I was trying to kick my career into higher gear. We hired help, but we also had an agreement that when DH wasn’t traveling, that his first responsibility was to hold the fort down at home so that I could take my work trips, work longer hours, etc. It can be done, but not if these choices are viewed as a zero-sum game or if you and your DH don’t have really good communication skills. [/quote]
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