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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it ideal? No, but if you can't handle this how will you handle caring for two kids? It just is what it is. [b]You can do i[/b]t.[/quote]

Geez.  It’s probably the first time she’s had to care for her toddler alone while undergoing fertility treatments.  I didn’t know everything about how to be a perfect mother when my first child was born—I’ve had to learn along the way.  I’m glad you’ve made sure to tell OP she’s incompetent.[/quote]

PP- work on your reading comprehension. The poster you quoted DID tell OP that she was competent enough to handle this. [/quote]

My mistake.  I thought she was saying that OP was an incompetent mother for questioning how she would manage (the “how will you handle caring for two kids”) before saying she was competent (“you can do it.”).  I know I was nervous about caring for two kids while pregnant with my second (both were IVF) and comments like “how will you handle two if you’re stressed about A/B/C” seemed designed to undermine my confidence.[/quote]

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