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[quote=Anonymous]OP - You're correct that you didn't have the best parenting experience from your mother. Don't forget your father is also at fault too... he sounds more neglectful than your mother. Technically, I'd say she was more emotionally unavailable than truly neglectful, as others are saying. However, you're an adult now, you have to do the work to figure out how to make your life better. Not saying it's going to be easy, but it's on you now. Nowhere in your post did you ask for help on how to get past you situation. You just validation that you're justified in your misery. And yes, we're acknowledging you're justified. So, you have two choices.... 1) Live out the rest of your days thinking "I'm miserable, but that's okay because I had a bad mother and it's not my fault, so it's okay, and it will never change,=." Or, 2) Start where you are right now, and figure out how to be happy from there.... [/quote]
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