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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]You allowed this behaviour in 6th grade.  I see this in my kid's class with girls and it isn't cute then.  
That was the first mistake.[/b]  Now you have to go back and fix what you started.  Limit means of contact - set limits on cell phone use.  No texting after 9pm.  Monitor all cell phone use.  Track where she goes and for how long. When she starts down the road of anything inappropriate, you step in.  It is time to parent and not just let things happen.  [/quote]

Agreed.

Some young moms think it is cute when they do it with their toddlers.  A friend used to comment when her DS used to play with DD about how great it would be if the kids grew up an marry.  I know this is just meaningless talk but I used to put a stop to it.  I would say something like "Well, not your son because he is like  a sibling".   Why do women do that? It is not cute.  The kids grow up hearing such nonsense and then they think it is normal.

My kids know that they can have school friends but no dating is allowed.  They are in clubs and activities with boys and girls and they respect each other. is.  Even if you have a son, don't start commenting on girls (who are not interested in your son anyways) and start listing how they have qualities to be your son's girlfriend or spouse.   Maybe wait till everyone is educated, working, adulting and living independently before you start dreaming about their romantic relationships.  [/quote]

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