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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I thought this way and ended up marrying someone who was abusive despite us both coming from intact families over generations. So many families I guess just lived through trauma and stayed together. It's the luck of the draw these days. I would look more at character traits and just do regular counseling. America is the land of freedom and if people want to do something they can.[/quote]

I know my kids will likely be judged but there's nothing I can do about it. Like the above, we got out as soon as it started becoming abusive. It's hard to say how that will play out in the future. I don't have a crystal ball. I was abused as a child from a parent of an intact marriage - not my own but a relative and have never spoken about it except to family, so no one would know from the outside. The spouse is not the only influencer in a child's life. As I got to see in college. Plenty of people from intact families behaving crazy that likely influenced their behavior as adults. It's not like the parents are marrying off the children anymore. Children have freedom to make their own lives which can go upwards or downwards pretty easily.[/quote]

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