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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You all are describing amateur night.

Every Authentic Cheater knows that you never, never, never put down your spouse in words or writing to your AP, whom you describe as perfect in every way but one, which happens to be exactly your AP's unique gift.

You never say the three magic words to the AP but you are always loving in your actions.

You never give the AP better gifts than your spouse.

You never refuse emotional support or sex or participation in household projects to your spouse once you have begun to be physically intimate with your AP.

You never choose time with the AP over time with family events or holidays or activities with your kids.

Rancor and neglect ruin marriages, not affairs.[/quote]

Huh? Your AP doesn’t know who is getting “better gifts” or how you behave at home, and vice versa. Personally I don’t see the point of doing something as destructive as an affair unless you love the person, and if you do you tell them. [/quote]

Of course your spouse does not know but you know and that affects your energy in interactions with your spouse. If you love someone else you should leave your spouse, but most affairs have little to do with love. People are getting other needs met and do not plan to end their primary relationships. Not loving your spouse is far more destructive than having sex with someone else, as the many DCUMers who divorced over other issues can attest. [/quote]

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