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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: I guess where I struggle is in a sense he would not do these things unless he responded to a negative stimuli. I guess some women might be overall better than I am. So he does have a point on some ways. I am trying to understand the balance. The problem is some of these things are so trivial. But if I ask him to not forget to do something - he normally forgets because he is depressed so he does not like thinking about logistics anymore he tells me his mind is elsewhere and he cannot control it - he can blow up out of proportion. [/quote]

This is heartbreaking OP. Think about the lesson your child is learning. If mommy is annoying it’s ok for daddy to rage and slam doors? Do you want your child to think this is normal and what they should expect for themselves? If you are annoying (not getting into whether you are or not in these circumstances- it literally doesn’t matter)your spouse can be annoyed but they have the responsibility to express that annoyance in a healthy way. It sounds like your sense of self is really badly damaged at this point in time so I hope you will find a professional to talk to to help you think about what to do.[/quote]

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