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[quote=Anonymous]This is why I didn't take my therapist's advice and totally cut off my mother; narcs then recruit others to do their dirty work. They really lose their sh*t and my mom was pretty elderly anyhow by that point, but the emotional abuse (name calling, constant criticism, etc..) was worse.

I kept interaction to a minimum instead, and only went to see them for a couple days at a time, a couple times per year. Maybe called a couple times a month. And then "gray rocked" any comments.

Sorry OP. Your mom probably cried about how awful you are and that you need to be shamed in order to come back around and have a relationship. Which pretty much indicates how she operates, instead of trying to repair the relationship with you.

Just don't reply, or work with a therapist to create a standard reply to all of them, so they all get the same message. Something like...I really missed you at thanksgiving, but mom and I need to work through some things. Please respect my decision. [/quote]

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