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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m married to a pretty alpha man.   He gets jealous, and I like it.

He doesn’t tell me not to talk to other men or get angry if someone is flirting with me, but he will walk up and put his arm around me if he sees me talking to another man.  I think in the OP of the other thread, her husband asked the old boyfriend to get a beer.  I could see my husband doing that, but his arm would be around me the whole time, and if we all went out together, he would sit right next to me and make it obvious that we are a couple.  [/quote]

Your husband sounds incredibly insecure. Do you have a promiscuous history that would lead him to act like that?[/quote]

You see it as insecure.  I see it as romantic.
If you interpret your husband’s actions as insecure or assume he thinks you are promiscuous whenever he puts his arm around you in public or sits next to you when you go out to dinner, is there a way that your husband can be near you without you seeing him as weak or critical of you?  No wonder half of the people on this forum aren’t having sex.  [/quote]

NP- the arm around you thing would bother me. Mostly because I see this behavior as he is clearly "marking" you as 'his."  I am no one's but my own.  I'm not property to be marked.   In a similar situation, my husband has whispered to me, "Sure I'll be nice to that guy. He can come around and flirt with you and make you smile, but you are going home with me."  It was less obvious and still made me feel wanted without needing to physically mark me as "his."  [/quote]

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