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[quote=Anonymous]Not normal. Even if they are just being tourists or shopping in your town that is five hours away, they should let you know they are coming and at least phone when you are there. I am a mom of married adult. I would never do this to my children and partners. It would hurt their feelings and make them feel unvalued. Sorry both your parents and IL are behaving like this. If you have otherwise decent relations with them, I would try and talk to them about it - maybe no accusations but just ask why they choose to visit your town which is a long drive away and not mention anything to you. Maybe there is more to it - maybe they are trying to send your messages about some of your conduct that they do not appreciate ? If that is so, I don’t like mind games myself, and prefer honesty. I hope you can figure out what is going on and encourage more thoughtful communications. [/quote]
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