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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, in your place I would worry about your potential for abuse. I wonder if this guy is a narcissist, his wife a victim who has not seen the light but would love to have your company there. The husband must see some potential in you to serve his needs. I wonder if he has detected your weak spots. He is offering that you get to have your own child. Is this what makes this worth it? What will you do, write up a contract? Suppose you get pregnant. How do you protect that child in this situation? [/quote] These are valid points. But why do you assume the woman is a victim? How do you know it wasn't the woman pushing for this?[/quote] Societal norms and experience. I can't know. It's not an assumption but a worry. Could a situation like this work? Sure! But who is generally seeking this. Not necessarily healthy people. More likely exploitative people.[/quote] But how many of these people do you actually know?[/quote]
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