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[quote=Anonymous]Interesting question. For me, my DD is the most beautiful kid in the world, but I understand that what our culture considers beautiful may be different. It's the same with my H, he is by far the most attractive, gorgeous man in the world to me, even though he looks different than what our culture holds as ideal beauty. I can tell when a person fits societal beauty norms, but that doesn't necessarily mean I find them beautiful or attractive. I find most beauty norms fairly generic and bland.

But that being said, I have been working to stop defaulting to noticing/commenting on peoples' looks. I was classically beautiful my whole life and have heard non-stop commentary since I was a very young child. It was not good for me to hear and did damage to my self-esteem, since I thought that was all I was good for. And I was a total wreck once I hit my 30s, had kids, and suddenly wasn't "hot" anymore. So I've been training myself to notice other aspects of children and adults other than their looks, and to never comment on someone's looks to either them or other people. Humans are more valuable than that.[/quote]

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