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Reply to "I don't want to go on vacation with my husband"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The biggest issue jumping out from your post is that you don't want to go on vacation with your husband, for many reasons, and the thought of having alone time and sex with him gives you anxiety. That is a massive red flag. Not sure if you realize how that sounds, but to me I can't see your marriage lasting much longer. He is totally in the wrong on not planning the vacation, and you need to discuss this. But you bedroom was dead before this. I would tell him all of this, the anxiety, the fear of being intimate. You might as well unpack it. Hopefully you will be able to offer solutions as to what you need to feel loved and valued in the marriage and he can do the same.[/quote] He has neglected her, and probably the kids, for years now. And thinks that’s all normal and fine! He can’t and won’t even plan a trip and it was his idea and he said he would. Yes the marriage is dead. But he’d also be a equally defective coparent.[/quote]
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