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[quote=Anonymous]Do either or both of you have ADHD or an executive functioning disorder, OP? The solution here is very obvious and the one mentioned by multiple PPs: split up the responsibilities so you each do the ones you enjoy or tolerate and butt out of what the other person is doing. Sit down together and make a list, and meet to discuss how it’s going once a month for the first few months until everything is running smoothly. Evaluate at that point whether you still feel any frustration with your work/life balance. And remember that the kids don’t stay little forever. The physical burdens of parenting decrease once they hit elementary school (other than the driving to activities) while the mental ones grow. [/quote]
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