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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP your problem isn’t egalitarianism.  It’s that you’re bad at communicating and delegating.[/quote]

This. We have an equal marriage and it works. We make about the same $ and have split most of the chores along strengths and preferences. I cook since i do it better and faster. Dh cleans up when i cook and he does all the laundry. Groceries are split but a common list. Yard stuff is split based on specific jobs, i like to garden so order plants and plant and he does clean up and lawn.  We split bedtimes for the kids and spend time with them together and 1-1. DH does most of the after school activities for oldest from research and sign up to taking her. And i do dr appts since my workday is more flexible. We talk a lot about plans and schedules but once someone owns a task they own it and the other one butts out. [/quote]

I doubt that it's that. Men half ass things or just don't do them. Her husband is a grown man. She's shouldn't have to nag him each week to do housework. [/quote]

Way to invent facts to fit your narrative! [/quote]

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