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[quote=Anonymous]Are you sure the money is going to his parents and his ex? It’s not like he can prove it to you, all you see is money going out the door and he can tell you anything.  If he’s really nasty, he can even send the money to an account with his ex’s name on it(but “owned” by him, so it appears like he’s sending it to her. And, why would you want a man who still pays for his ex? Seriously.

All this being said, Id run. This is why you don’t mix money and family/friends. Any love or affection or just nice feelings about someone go away real quick once they ask for money because the asks never end. They come at literally every hour of the day and night.  They cause fights among the couple who were probably having a nice day up until then.  I truly believe people who ask for money want to break couples up. 
I’m only sorry you and this guy own a house together. And, you cant “insist” on anything. The bank can, you can’t especially if you continue to live like a couple, sleep together, go out together, eat breakfast together.  You can scream at him, you can call him bad names, but that’s just a garden variety fight, something you could do over the lawn not being mowed too.   You can’t even kick him out of the house unless he’s living there as your guest. I’m sorry, op. [/quote]

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