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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I stopped expecting my husband to do half the grocery shopping and instead gave him more of the laundry. He would prefer to grocery shop but would either call me three times per trip or come home without critical items or with “great idea!” items that distracted him at the store. You have to play to the strengths of your teammate to make this work. I disagree with the poster who says it’s your job to set them up for success— no it isn’t. You don’t get extra jobs because your spouse struggles, it is their job to review the list before departing, follow the list, read the package at the store, etc.[/quote] Correct. It was his parents job to teach him and get his help if he was struggling with life skills (hygiene, planning, organizing, prioritizing, animal care, etc.)[/quote]
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