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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish just one man would actually say the reason he doesn't cheat is because he can't imagine hurting someone he loves and cares about so viciously.

I thought my cheater really loved and cared about me but had to accept that he did not.  We were having lots of sex at the time so that wasn't a factor.  [/quote]

Most of the responses are basically what you are saying. Men want to cheat but are afraid of getting caught because it would hurt their wives and themselves.[/quote]

DP. It’s so interesting to me that for many, the problem isn’t the act, but getting caught. I believe you can hurt somebody even if they don’t know what you are doing, so “I don’t cheat because I’m afraid of getting caught” is very different from “I don’t cheat because I can’t imagine hurting my spouse so deeply.” But I guess that if you believe that it’s only bad if you get caught, you can interpret them as being the same. 
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They think they will never get caught and rationalize therefore their spouse won’t get hurt.

It’s ludicrous of course.  But that’s what they all say after getting caught “it wasn’t about you.  I never meant to hurt you.”[/quote]

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