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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He calls to tell me and then gets pissed [b]b/c I am already on my way[/b] to the other appointment.[/quote]

OP here. I did. I literally hung up the phone after getting the appt, saw his text come in and called him to tell him. 
We could have gone to the appt he found but it was an hour away versus 15 min. [/quote]

It sounds like you are changing your story and deflecting the real issue of "already on my way" because you got called out on it vs pure man-bashing.  I previously had a lot of sympathy for you.  Your poor kid has to overhear what a burden he is making mommy and daddy fight over who gets stuck with him.  With no grandparent, babysitter, or friend pod to help out.  If your husband makes more and is the reason DS can do in-person private school at all, it was likely more strategic for you to hire help for the 10 days, for you to take a more flexible/remote job/part-time until you are established, or to do a split where hubby works 8 days, and you work 2 if hubby makes 4 times what you do.  If he loses his job/contract, and you can't afford private school and have to do virtual school/homeschool things will be a lot worse for all of you.  You also don't talk about why hubby couldn't make these calls after 5pm when he likely had no meetings.  5-9pm is plenty of time for a man who takes < two hours to call a hospital.  Why can't you admit you could have handled things with more courtesy and better utilize resources?  It sounds like you have grown accustomed to walking all over hubby.[/quote]

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