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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Apologize to him for not texting the SECOND you got an appointment.  It was fine for you to be calling in tandem to different spots.  However, you should BY NO MEANS been *on your way* to the *Appointment* with him still calling and losing work time.

Apologize to him for not delegating and calling your credit card concierge service using the phone number on the back to call the pharmacies.   They do this free in tandem.

Apologize again to him for not using your health insurance card by calling the customer/member service number on the back.  Their entire job is to call in tandem or even while you are at work, etc.  Blue Cross even job me an MRI appointment on a Sunday Holiday on the last day/same day-they called 47 places!   Their job is to literally get you an appointment.

Apologize for not calling a grandmother, posting on here, or making a facebook post asking if anyone has done this and found a place.   Ask yourself why you didn't post asking people for help with an appointment but instead wanted sympathy when there is a preponderance of evidence that you were the "CLUELESS" one.  Apologize for bashing him instead of appreciating him taking time off so YOU can work at a job which I hope you will never get promoted to a position over other people.

Apologize for being delusional that you are some master of delegation, have any reading/awareness of your resources, and don't waste people's time.  You are not going to become supervisor of the year at work, nor are you acting like wife of the year.  In fact, the ratio is not in your favor in this area and if you didn't have a kid together ("our"), it sounds like he'd easier get another wife because of his thoughtfulness and resourcefulness.  It sounds like he did in 2 hours, what took you under 17 hours, plus *he notified you* immediately to not waste your time.  He didn't play the "it's your kid too" card to do what is just common courtesy for when YOU took time off of work.

Do tell him due to the fact you are not being established and don't have staff  (either household or at work) you are out of practice with these common courtesy and delegation bits.  Do tell him you appreciate him and do indeed thank him.  Do tell him you realize you were "CLUELESS".  Do use your new income to ask for help in the form of a babysitter, errand boy/girl from the local high school you could have paid to call around (~$10), and to treat yourself to a break every now and again. 
 
If you can afford private school before you went to work, another consideration is to send your kid to public school and hire a nanny.  The public schools are pretty renowned here.

I am sorry if I sounded harsh, but you FINGERPOINTED and PASSED THE BUCK on this one, something you should get out of the habit of doing both as a wife and employee.  Above all, take some responsibility for your own CLUELESSNESS.  I am sorry you had such a stressful day.  I am sorry you had a bad fight.  And I am especially sorry, you are so isolated you can't even see how you are being rude to him.  Hugs and I hope you have a better week.[/quote]

This ridiculous word dump is utter nonsense and, as I suspect you already know, you should roll your eyes and ignore it, OP.[/quote]

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