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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just to add - when I think back, I think most of my “gut feelings” arose when someone didn’t have personal boundaries, or even just little things like they stood to close to me, or had alcohol on their breath during the day, or carried an undercurrent of anger that caused me to feel nervous around them, etc. But it’s more rare when I feel that repulsion or wariness when my interactions with the person have been pleasant or normal, etc. and I can’t pinpoint anything in particular that makes me want to keep my distance. But again, I would never ignore the feeling.[/quote]

OP here. I have had situations before where even when a person was nice I got a vibe something was off and stayed away. For example, a few years back I was dating a guy. who was nice, we got on well good conversation,  fun to be around, etc. but during our 4th or 5th ate I just go the feeling something was
t quite right and he said a couple of things that bothered me a bit. I never saw him again. I've also felt like some people were just drama despite how  nice they seemed and  I do my best to keep my distance. The only other time I felt something a bite similar to this is, that one young man in college who did sadly take his life, but I always felt sadness around him.  Even with the  guy from college though, I understand it in the way that  I knew I was around him, we were facing each other, I mean it was an encounter where I think most people could pick up he was sad , though maybe not feel it to the extent I did.  What bother's me most, is that I had no idea it was this guy until he had entered the room. I had my back fully to him, and I had this instant feeling of dread, heaviness,  darkness etc,  and I had the sense of I don't know exactly what to call it, I don't have the right word for it in English, but maybe alarm?  But it was definitely a feeling that came over my body  and left completely when he left the room.   I also felt compelled to watch him out of the corner of my eye. It was just bizarre because on the surface he was doing nothing wrong. No reason for me to react that way or feel bothered. The thing that bothers me the most is that I instantly knew it was him as soon as those unsettled feelings started.   AT least 5 or 6 other people passed into the room the same way, and had none of those feelings.

An I have heard  stories about people on TV or whatever who had feelings before something happened, and so I wondered if anyone else had experienced something like this in real life.[/quote]

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